I am wonderful as a parent - 
Parenting is the time to stand up for my own self-growth and support myself to think, speak and do things that makes me grow and not simply age. I never complain my parents, I give myself all that what my parents couldn’t give me. While raising my children, I prefer to understand what childhood my parents had. My contribution to my children while parenting them is to do the best for my parents, love them as they are and accept them as they are.


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