Balanced Parenting -

There is no specific training to be a parent, it is a learning by trial and error method. You observe and learn from your parents. You learn from your child. You observe many members in the family, their interactions and follow these in your life. 

Now, it is ironic that we all have lost our family support system. Competition has entered into families too. What was valid and successful once is no more valid and appreciated. People want to survive by competing with siblings, wants to show others down. Present family system does not come with grand parents, uncles and relatives - it is only me and my child. 

Parents are forced to turn on themselves to find solutions to problems they sail with. They do things to bring up a healthy child. However, parents spend little time in upbringing a child who is self-accepting and self-confident. They must learn how to raise an emotionally mature child, emotionally healthy child. Parents must pay attention to this aspect of a child's upbringing.